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Download Author: Kottler, Jeffrey Ph.D.


41 eBooks available.

Games Therapists Play

Rules of Engagement

In Case I Decide to Kill Myself

Beyond Blame

Blaming others is easy. But as author Jefrey Kottler shows, the key to resolving conflicts is not in what’s wrong with others. We can find the key within ourselves and learn to react differently—when we understand the forces that maintain our self-defeating behaviors and use those insights to resolve our own issues.

In Beyond Blame, Jeffrey Kottler explains how to

  • Identify what sets you off
  • Find the causes of your conflicts
  • Handle the discomfort of conflict
  • Try different strategies
  • Recognize the positive value of conflict
  • Deal with the conflicts that can’t be resolved

Whether your conflict is with a family member, a co-worker, a boss, a teacher, a friend, or a lover, Beyond Blame will help you get at the root of the problem, take responsibility for what is happening, and respond more effectively. (200 pp.)

Reviews

“At a time when too many conflict and negotiation books argue that the other side is the problem, Beyond Blame has an important and different message. Instead of looking for ways of blaming or manipulating the other side, this book preaches the importance of taking responsibility for one’s own actions and attitudes, looking inward instead of outward.”

-Jeffrey Z. Rubin, senior fellow, Program on Negotiation at Harvard Law School

I’m Coming Back Until You Fix Me

Introduction: Beyond Blame

You Can’t Make Me Talk

The Imperfect Therapist

The authors discuss the fears about professional effectiveness, treatment outcomes, and legal risks and then outline the defenses – such as denial of failure, overwork, isolation and substance abuse – that therapists often use to avoid facing their vulnerabilities. They offer advice for handling anxieties and enhancing personal and professional growth. (200 pages)

The Nature of Resistance

The Compleat Therapist

How can therapists practice so differently yet achieve similar results? Using the stories of colleagues as well as his own rich experience, Jeffrey Kottler identifies the traits of an effective therapist’s repertoire. This is a book for therapists and clients alike who are struggling to understand the diversity of the therapeutic process. (234 pages)

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