It is the large mass of “normal” men who need focus—men who are aging, and who, through that aging, are being forced to deal with inevitable changes in their work, family, and physical lives. In large part, there are few places where they are invited to address the issues that come from those changes, or if they do address the change issues, it is expected that they will handle them in the typically “manly” way of showing no reaction and minimizing the “bother” that they represent. (19 pp.)